Riding Pine

April 02, 2023

One of the most difficult things to do in any sport is ride the bench. We all want to help contribute to the teams success and the majority of us want it to be in the trenches with our teammates who we spend so many hours preparing with.

The reasons typically differ between a few things, but these reasons are very real.

Sometimes it can be financial. More scholarship, a bigger signing bonus, a big donors child. This simply creates a wider window for opportunity for that athlete from the start. However, it does not mean they are untouchable. Your choices here are to wait your turn, or potentially change positions.

Sometimes the competition is deep and that makes it more challenging to show out as someone who deserves to play. Over-recruiting, over-drafting, or just an unlucky draw. This can be create an environment where it seems like there is no way out. Often times ending up in one or more of the athletes changing locations through trade or transfer portal.

Hardly ever do coaches "pick favorites". Any coach wants to win at the end of the day and if they believe you can help the team win, you will be on the field/court/ice.

This year I experienced injured athletes being left behind on spring trips. It was tough to see players be left behind, especially when they have a history in your program. One player describes it themselves says:

"The hardest part about not traveling is not being able to ride the up and downs with the team. We put so much time and effort into our craft, both individually and as team...The (fear of missing out) made me want to work harder to be back and ready to play." -Spenser Smith, Gr. @ Northeastern U

What can you do about it?

Think about what you can control in the situation. Examples may be your attitude, effort, and intentions. Knowing your coaches intentions as well will also help you gauge whether to stay or leave your current position.

Until next time.